So we’ve been living in Scotland since the end of July (2017), and every single day has be absolutely amazing. I cannot tell you all the incredible experiences I’ve had just in the short time we’ve been here, but I can tell you about one of the most awkward moments I’ve had to date.
At the end of September one of our friends was celebrating a milestone birthday, and his lovely wife decided to throw him a surprise birthday part to mark the occasion. On the day of the event she asks me to come over and give her a hand is setting everything up. Fine, no problem, I was very happy to help.
She and I and another lass spent the morning wiping down patio furniture and halogen lights, setting up a number of extra chairs, a buffet table, and a large outdoor tent – thank goodness I’ve had lots of practice at craft shows setting up those foolish things! While we’re setting up the tent my friend accidentally stumbles into the flagstone patio and promptly breaks her pinky toe. I cringe at the memory of the “crunch” her poor wee piggie made. In spite of the pain and nausea she soldiered on though, because that’s what Scottish women do!
That evening, after a much needed shower and rest we returned to the party scene. The house was packed with folks, and everyone was doing what strangers do at a party….milling about making small talk over glasses of champagne. Men were clustered around the BBQ grill, beer in hand, talking about the latest football matches. The hostess was running around like a chicken with her head cut off, making sure everyone had drinks and appetizers, offering introductions, and generally looking frazzled. Of course, me being me, offered to give her a hand with the final dinner preparations.
At the offer of help I was promptly put in charge of boiling the potatoes for the buffet. No problem! Cooking, I can handle. As I stood at the stove in the middle of the kitchen, surrounded by slightly buzzed strangers I felt right at home. When you’re the help, no one takes notice of you, unless you do something really stupid, like drop a tray full of champagne glasses on the floor. Thankfully I wasn’t in charge of the drinks table, so I was safe from scrutiny…for the most part.
As I stirred the pot of potatoes I found myself approached by several middle-aged men who had obviously come with a spouse or date, but had managed to lose them at some point. I was quite flattered by their curiosity and attention, having never really spent much time on the receiving end of pick-up lines, being married by the ripe old age of barely 22. But it didn’t take long to go from being a curiosity to being a spectacle, because that’s how I roll.
Flattery over and taters cooked, I had one task left before my hour of service was over and we could all settle into an evening of music, dancing, and well mannered birthday frivolity – the taters needed to get to the buffet table so dinner could begin. No problem, right? Um, yeah….you keep telling yourself that….
So I’ve got this pot of boiled taters transferred to my brand new slow cooker, the kind with the snap-down top. By the way, this slow cooker is fantastic! Whoever thought to put a snap down lid on a slow-cooker should win a Nobel Prize or something. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve spilled chili and other soups in my car, down the front of me, and all over the floor because the lid of the slow cooker didn’t seal properly. But I digress…
I pick up the slow cooker, considering for a minute whether or not I should snap down the lid, thinking to myself, “I’ve only got to get from the kitchen to the back yard, but deciding to not risk it since I had on a thin, silk top and didn’t really fancy wearing salty tater water down the front of my blouse the rest of the night. Thank you Jesus for that moment of sanity!
I make my way through the press of people in the kitchen and down 3 stairs to the conservatory. I could see the buffet table set up just off the flagstone patio about 30 feet from the back door. It was a beautiful, bright, {rare} warm Scottish evening with a faint breeze and not a cloud in the sky. The sun was beginning to make its way toward the horizon, the sea taking on the characteristic late summer afternoon shift from green to blue-black to golden as the sun dropped lower in the sky. Most of the party attenders were in the conservatory around the drinks table and milling around the patio in groups of three or four, admiring the view and talking in subdued tones.
Dodging around a couple of women who were teetering on their heels and giggling over their glasses of champagne at the opportunity for a Friday night out of the house, I picked up my pace, wanting to deposit the heavy slow cooker full of hot boiled taters onto the buffet table so I could find my own drink and re-join my husband and friends.
The next thing I know, I’m lurch forward through the air as I step out the back door. Both my feet have left the ground, and somehow I’m making a nose dive toward the rough flagstone patio directly in front of me. Now a normal person would probably have thrown the slow cooker away from their body, allowing for themselves to brace their fall with their hands to avoid a face plant. Not me though! For some unknown reason, I folded the slow cooker against my chest, the lid pressed tight against my ample bosom, fingers clenched around the plastic handles on the side of the pot like I was heading out into the ocean for an afternoon of body surfing.
Moments later, the serenity of the party is broken by the ungodly screeching sound of metal against stone as I land on top of the slow cooker, sliding across the uneven flags of the patio in a spray of sparks from the bottom of the cooker. As my ears are processing the high pitched wheal I can feel my feet gain momentum faster than my body and my legs begin to curl back over my body, and I’m feeling pretty certain that I’m about a heartbeat away from flipping over this crazy slow cooker in a bloody face plant. Somehow, I managed to press my legs to the ground to halt my progress, stopping the ear splitting screeching, and as I abruptly ceased motion my glasses flew off my face and skidded a further 6 feet in front of me, thankfully coming to rest upside-down on the frames rather than the lenses.
I took a breath. And another. The crowd had fallen completely silent and in the absence of noise I could feel every pair of eyes at the party trained on my back. My own eyes popped open and I realized simultaneously that my face was only inches from the rough flagstones, and I was somehow perched on top of the slow cooker like a hen on top of her nest of eggs. I felt Sam lay his hand on my back, bending down to see if I was alive. Prompted by a mortifying sense of embarrassment I heard myself repeating, “I’m okay,” two or three times before my brain had a chance to take stock of whether or not the words were true.
As my brain began to engage my body, I could feel the lid handle pressing hard against my breastbone and every breath I tried to draw in sent a twinge of pain through my chest. The heat from the boiling water and hot potatoes was radiating through the glass lid and thin silk of my duck-egg blue blouse, causing my chest to burn as hotly red from the contents of the cooker as my face was from embarrassment. My knees had slammed sharply against the flagstones and they felt like someone had run a hot poker against the kneecaps. I silently cursed myself for wearing my favorite jeans, figuring they were probably ripped and ruined.
And then the gravity of the situation hit me…I was laying on top of a slow cooker of boiled potatoes in the middle of a crowd of strangers, and the worst part of the whole situation was, I was going to have to try and get up off the ground, preferably without looking like a turtle that was flipped over on its back, and without showing off my extra-large bum. If I made it off the ground, I was going to have to find a way to exit the party quickly, most likely covered in a ruined top of smashed taters and hot salty water…. In that moment I was certain the social gods hated me.
Thank you Jesus for adrenaline. In the time it took for a party-goer to retrieve my glasses from the patio, I had managed to burpee off the slow cooker into an upright position. Sam plucked the slow cooker from the patio, which was somehow, miraculously still in one piece (although it will never sit level again), lid securely clipped down, and not a drop of hot contents spilled! And I found that while my knees burned like fire my jeans were not ripped, and my bum had been securely covered by the tails of my silky blouse the entire time! Within 90 seconds the party began buzzing again, and I was able to retrieve the vestiges of my dignity, smile at a few of the remaining gawkers, and sachet to the drinks table like nothing had happened. Of course my cheeks never did lose their rosy red glow, and I noticed several of the chaps who’d paid me complements 15 minutes earlier were shooting me mischievous smiles of amusement before turning their attention back to their dates. Oh, what a night to remember.
Only me, right?! *sigh*